"For each of us there is some mission in life if we but find it. All have some definite thing to do, something for which they have been created; and only the doing of this thing will justify their existence here on earth. If we come into the world and occupy space and time without giving back for this privilege, we have not justified ourselves, and our lives in the end are barren." ~ Hay

Sunday, January 13, 2013

How to have a successful relationship….

Current statistics are that two out of every four marriages end in divorce.  Of the fifty percent remaining, only one-quarter would consider themselves happily married.  There is a way to improve on these statistics and that is by looking for a “spiritual union” rather than a “marriage.” 

 When we enter into marriage today, most of the time we get married to meet a need – like having children, loneliness, feeling needed, etc.  Once that need is met, there is nothing holding the marriage together.  There is no glue.  Then couples take things out on each other and life becomes “you didn’t do this and you didn’t do that.”  It is important to evaluate before you enter into marriage if it is “true love” or “need based.”   A spiritual union (or spiritual marriage) is a different process.

Before a spiritual union is formed, it is important for each individual to be healed of past hurts leaving them behind where they belong.  Then it is equally important to discover from “within” your soul path and then begin the process of looking for a mate who shares your passion and hence your journey.  A spiritual union is two people entering a union because there is a purpose to be served which can evolve humanity and better the world.  If this couple is married and has children, and those children go to college, they will remain married because there is still “glue” that keeps them together.  The couple loves each other unconditionally accentuating the positives and not giving any credence to the negatives.  This is what was intended by our creator. 

We are at a critical time in the world – a turning point.  In order to advance society and preserve the world as we know it, the Universe is pairing up “soulmates” in hopes that they will bond and form a spiritual union.  The love between these two people is intense, unlike anything experienced in life.  It must be because this love will propel these two people to do extraordinary things.  It is a gift from the Universe to be paired with a soul mate.

Before you search for a mate, ask yourself what you can do to make the world a better place and do it.  Once you are on your soul path, doors will open and your other half will appear.

Here is a link to Friday’s show WakeUp & Live on Freedomizer Radio. On Friday, my special guest Holistic Health Coach JoAnn Layford  and I discussed how to "Clear Your Mind, Change Your Body and Claim Your Life."

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Christine Segal is a Certified Holistic Health Coach having studied at Integrative Nutrition. She also holds a Master’s Degree in Education. She hosts a weekly radio show on health and wellness on Freedomizer Radio called “WakeUP and Live.” Please visit her website at www.innerbeautyworkshops.com for more information. Christine works with clients in person or via telephone. Please write her for a consultation Christine@innerbeautyworkshops.com.

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