"For each of us there is some mission in life if we but find it. All have some definite thing to do, something for which they have been created; and only the doing of this thing will justify their existence here on earth. If we come into the world and occupy space and time without giving back for this privilege, we have not justified ourselves, and our lives in the end are barren." ~ Hay

Sunday, December 23, 2012

Letting Go


How did we get to the end of the year already?  As 2012 comes to an end, it’s time to close the door to people, places or things that no longer serve you.  Is there something in the way that is preventing you from moving forward?  If so, it’s time to make the final sweep so you are ready for new doors and opportunities in 2013.  Yes, change is in the air.

In the final days of 2012, can you say goodbye to someone who has deeply hurt you?  Can you say goodbye to someone who doesn’t allow you to grow both emotionally and spiritually? Can you say goodbye to a cheating spouse?  Can you say goodbye to addictions you may have such as alcohol or drugs? Can you say goodbye to procrastination? Can you say goodbye to self-loathing?   It’s time to look in the mirror and love yourself for exactly who and what you are.  If someone else cannot accept that, it’s time to let them go.   Big changes are never easy.  We often feel like the rug has been pulled out from under us and we are falling fast.  Sometimes we need to fall because that leads to periods of growth and learning.  By studying and analyzing our mistakes we can break them down and search out their meaning.  This often takes time and some quiet reflection, but is necessary so we do not continually repeat our mistakes.  When we close doors it may hurt because we lose the comfort of what we knew.  It takes time to get comfortable again, but it will happen…but only if we close the door.  So shut it!  Remember that letting go and forgiveness go hand-in-hand.  It is process, but you cannot let go of something or somebody without forgiving them.  This will allow you to not look back and, instead, move forward.  If this is difficult for you, please seek outside counseling to help deal with the unresolved feelings.

 January 1, 2013 starts a brand new year.  It’s a fresh start to attract what you truly want in life.  We have entered a new age and it will be different from what we knew life to be.  It’s all good, but you have to be ready, willing and able to accept it.  Can you accept the good that is coming your way even if it is different than what you knew?  Come back to this blog next week, as I set new intentions for 2013.  I am very encouraged that this will be my best year yet and it will be yours too, but first, in these final days of 2012, FORGIVE & LET GO!

 
 
Here is a link to Friday’s show WakeUp & Live on Freedomizer Radio.  On Friday, my special guest Luis Soto and I discussed “The Law of Attraction.”  Do you want to attract good into your life?  Learn how by listening to this broadcast.

WakeUP & Live / Ikaikalene 12/21 by FreedomizerRadio | Blog Talk Radio

 

 

Christine Segal is a Certified Holistic Health Coach having studied at Integrative Nutrition. She also holds a Master’s Degree in Education. She hosts a weekly radio show on health and wellness on Freedomizer Radio called “WakeUP and Live.” Please visit her website at www.innerbeautyworkshops.com for more information. Christine works with clients in person or via telephone. Please write her for a consultation Christine@innerbeautyworkshops.com.

 

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