Witness the Law of Attraction in Action

"It's doesn't matter what you look like on the outside,
you are always young at heart."

The “Law of Attraction Philosophy” considered the “New Thought Movement” really isn’t so new.  It stems back to biblical times with references in the Bible.  If one “seeks” the information, one will “find” mountains of ancient and old writings on the subject matter.   According to Wikipedia, the Law of Attraction is “a theory that like attracts like, and that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, one can bring about positive or negative results.”  Today, I want to share with you a story that happened to me when I was 19.  I’m attributing the outcome of this story to the Law of Attraction in Action.

At the age of 19, I was working every teenage girl’s dream.  I had a part-time job in a cosmetics store that sold make-up, perfume, hair products and the like.  One day an attractive woman walked into the store and asked for my help.  She was about 5’ 2”, had dark hair and eyes and was very much in shape.  She was dressed beautifully from what I can remember.  I proceeded to help her and, during our conversation, she told me that she was a doctor.  I was surprised because she didn’t look old enough to be a doctor.  I told her so.  Her reply, and I will never forget, was “I take really good care of myself.  I eat healthy and I exercise.  I’m in my 40’s.”  I was completely floored when she told me she was in her 40’s.  I wouldn’t have pegged her a day over 25.  She told me that I could look as good as her as long as I took care of myself. 

I have kept that conversation in my head for the past 28 years.  I have done my best to take the very best care of myself.  In addition, I would frequently tell myself that “when I’m in my 40’s I want people to have no idea how old I am.  I want to look as good as that woman.”  Unbeknownst to me, I was sending a message to all my cells to age slowly.  I attracted my still youthful appearance based on a mental message and picture of something that happened to me when I was only 19 years old.  I sent out the vibration into the Universe by a mental visualization and the Universe responded by granted me my wish because as per the definition of the Law of Attraction…. “Like attracts like.”

Since I am almost out of my 40’s, I need a new visualization.  I am now looking at people in their 60’s and 70’s and repeating that I want to look as good as they do.  I invite you to try this….It works!

If you are new to hearing about the Law of Attraction, I invite you to start with reading “The Secret,”  by  Rhonda Byrne.  You can pick up a used book for only $1.99 http://www.amazon.com/The-Secret-Rhonda-Byrne/dp/1582701709/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1337296929&sr=1-1.  From this book, follow the trail backwards and keep reading about the subject.  You will be amazed at what you learn….:)

"I'm on the top of the world..."

"Forever Young"

References

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_attraction

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How Light and Music Can Energize Your Aura & Chakras

How many of you know that you have an Aura?  Or how about seven main energy centers in the body called Chakras?  It usually requires a trained eye to see somebody’s aura.  Most people cannot see them, however, just because we cannot see them, doesn’t mean that they do not exist.  An Aura is a protective shell of pure energy that surrounds the human body, usually in the shape of an egg.  This energy is made up of matter which has not been condensed to a solid form.  This energy also includes a rainbow of color.  There is no clear consensus as to what each color represents with the exception of the colors black and gray.  These colors usually represent illness in some form.  Aura’s can vary in size.  I was told that mine was on the larger side, stemming out quite a distance from my body.  The Aura Imaging machine certainly captures the rainbow of colors surrounding my body.  The photo below is one taken of my Aura a few years ago. 

Picture of Aura taken several years ago
*Please note the few dark spots you see is actually stuck on top of the photo.

An Aura reminds me of the clouds surrounding a mountain; the mountain representing the solid mass (i.e., the physical body) and the clouds representing the noncompressed energy (the Aura). 

In addition to our Aura, our body has seven main areas of energy called Chakras.  The Chakras start at the very top of the human head and run down the spine.  Healthy Chakras spin clockwise to create energy which is then utilized by the physical body.  Our Chakras sometimes slow down, get blocked or spin in the opposite direction.  It’s important to keep this energy moving.

Picture from http://www.allthingshealing.com/

There are many ways to keep the flow of energy moving around the body.  You can try acupuncture, reiki, yoga, meditation or some kind of light/energy work.  Here is a simple meditative exercise you can do at home.  You can visualize your seven major energy centers rotating freely and in harmony.               

Find a place where you can lie down and relax where nobody can disturb you.  Feel free to light a candle or dimly light the room.  Play the music below softly in the background.  Close your eyes and completely relax your body.  Now visualize all the Chakras.  Starting with the Root Chakra, imagine a small ball of light spinning to the music.  Enjoy the experience as that ball of energy spins at your root.  Now move up to the Sacral Chakra and imagine the two Chakras spinning together in harmony and light.  Do the same visualization with the other Chakras in order: Solar, Heart, Throat, Third Eye and Crown until you see all seven Chakras spinning and dancing in harmony and light.  Now imagine your Aura, sparkling with a rainbow of color.  Keep this visual for as long as you like and repeat this words: “My Energy Flows Freely.” “I am filled with dancing light.” Gradually, open your eyes …..

Once energy flows freely throughout the body and your aura shines, you will begin to attract  different opportunities and you will meet new people.  This information is priceless!

Strike a pose!

REFERENCES

http://www.asc-alchemy.com/chakra.html

http://www.allthingshealing.com/Tarot/The-Chakra-Lube-Job-Using-the-Tarot-as-a-Tool-of-Healing/4584

Harbour, Dorothy; "Energy Vampires," Destiny Books, Rochester 2002

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May 2012 Challenge – Clean Out Your Drawers!

It's a tough job!  Someone has to do it!

Cleaning out your drawers is one of those pesky jobs that seem like such a waste of time.  However, how frustrating is it to look for something and not be able to find it because it is buried under papers and not clearly visible?  How much time do you waste trying to find something that should take you only a matter of seconds?  I have a neighbor who starts cleaning each room by cleaning the drawers.  She likes to work from the inside-out.  I’m sure she’s the only person I know who cleans like this.  Of course, her mother taught her well…she is now 81!  I know for myself, by the time I finish cleaning a room, the last think I want to do is start opening up drawers.  In fact, most of the time, I “file away” papers (i.e. coupons) in a drawer that I think may be useful in the future, only to forget about them.  A few years down the road, when I finally do clean out the drawer, they have expired two years ago.  If you have “junk” drawers, it’s time to SORT, THROW OUT & ORGANIZE!

Ugh!

Tearing my hair out...but still smiling :)

Did you know, when you get rid of the old, it makes way for the new.  It’s a clearing that is reflective of our psyche.  When our surroundings are mess, it is indicative of our emotional state.  If we live in chaos and clutter, our mind is usually suffering from the same – chaos and clutter.  When you begin to “clear out” it gives you a sense of balance and control.  If your car is a mess, clean it and see how much better you feel the next time you sit in it.  By cleaning our drawers, we are actually cleaning the crevices of our brain making way for the new to enter our lives. 

Here’s the challenge for the month of May….Pick the room in your house that has the messiest drawers and clean them out.  Continue to pick one room a week and clean out the drawers.   Notice I did not say closets.  That is a whole other ball of wax.  Let’s wait until the fall for that one.  It’s too nice outside to spend countless hours cleaning and organizing a closet.

Let’s see your drawers!!

Hard at work!

Look what I found....a present from my son!

*Don’t forget to throw papers in the recycling bin.  Remember, that your trash is someone’s treasure.  Instead of throwing items out that will sit in our landfills, please find an owner.  You can place “free” items on Craigslist or try freecycle.com. 

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Inner Beauty Workshops Field Trip – Green festival NYC 2012

On Saturday, April 21^st I ventured into NYC to spend the day at the Green Festival at Javits Center.  The main reason I wanted to attend was to meet Jeffrey Smith, Author of “Seeds of Deception” and “Genetic Roulette.”  I completely admire this man who has fought tirelessly to make the public aware of the dangers of genetically modified foods.  He maintains an informational website; Institute for Responsible Technology (http://www.responsibletechnology.org/) which has the most up-to-date news on GMO’s.  He has developed a labeling system for items that do NOT contain GMO’s.  Please visit his website to request a shopping guide brochure that contains products from manufacturers who are free & clear of genetically modified ingredients. 

Jeffrey Smith, Green Festival NYC 2012

Jeffrey Smith presented the most recent science validating the dangers of GMO’s.  Please visit his website for this information.

Christine Segal, Jeffrey Smith, Green Festival NYC 2012

Here is his first book at Amazon:  http://www.amazon.com/Seeds-Deception-Government-Genetically-Engineered/dp/0972966587/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1335385265&sr=1-2

*You can educate yourself about GMO’s for the price of a movie and popcorn...think about it!

I also attended a lecture of the delightful Frances Moore Lappe.  She discussed her new book “Eco-Mind.  Changing the Way We Think, to Create The World We Want.”  Her message is for each and every one of us, no matter what age, to set our fears aside and collectively focus on solutions to the problems our world faces today. 

Frances Moore Lappe, Christine Segal - Green Festival NYC 2012

Here is her book at Amazon:

http://www.amazon.com/EcoMind-Changing-Think-Create-World/dp/1568586833/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1335385212&sr=1-

I had a blast looking at all the vendor tables.  There was such a variety of eco-savvy information there.  I liked all the vendors and what they had to offer, however, here are a few that really caught my eye: 

1.    Mr. Ellie Pooh is a fair trade company that makes paper products out of elephant poo.  That’s right; the paper is made from 50 percent fiber from elephant dung and 50 percent from post consumer paper.  I was handed a sample of this paper at the festival.  It reminds me of what construction paper used to look like when I was a kid.  Check them out:  www.mrelliepooh.com

2.    Walleska Ecochicc is an innovative company who uses recycled aluminum can tabs to make items such as pocketbooks, belts, vests or jewelry.  These items will definitely make a statement wherever you g o.  Please visit their website to view items:  www.ecochicc.com

3.    I just loved the kale chips from Alive & Radiant Foods.  The kale chips are raw, gluten free, and made with organic ingredients.  There are many varieties including Southwest Ranch, Tarragon Dijon and Cheezy Chips.  http://blessingsaliveandradiantfoods.com/

4.    Phytopod is a gardening container that allows you to grow a 20 square foot garden in a 2’ x 2’ space.  Now you have no excuses as to why you cannot grow your own garden.  Check this out:  http://verticalhomegardens.com/

5.    Kopali Organics had samples of wonderful Kopali Chocolates which originated from Peru.  They have no refined sugars, no cholesterol, no transfats, no dairy, no animal products, vegan and gluten free.  Flavors include:  organic dark chocolate covered banana, organic dark covered goji berries and organic dark chocolate covered cocao nibs.  Here is the website for further information:  www.kopali.com

I cannot wait until next year!

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A Matter of Principle





Have you ever had something happen to you that you felt the need to stick up for your rights?  For instance, a traffic violation you felt you didn’t deserve.  When something happens to me in life which doesn’t sit right inside of me, I always stand up for myself and express my concerns.  I wanted to write this blog post so you can follow my train of thoughts to understand my thinking process in dealing with an uncomfortable situation.

This week I got a “Notice Before Summons” mailed to my home from the Department of Waste Management from my town stating that I had five days to clean up debris such as “litter, paper, loose branches and leaves” from an area behind my fence or else I would be fined and cited with a misdemeanor.   This area is about 10 feet wide and meets with a traveled road.  I was told when I moved in my house over 20 years ago that the property belonged to the Town.  Consequently, the Town cared for the property up until I received the letter basically cutting down any tree branches that impacted the road and picking up any litter that passerby’s threw out of their car windows.  I never considered this area my responsibility.

The area in question

The area in question

I was taken aback by the tone of the letter…”I had five days to clean up this area or else….”  Why do people in the place of authority think it is okay to speak down to other people?  There was no reason to send a threatening letter.  Why not simply send a letter asking the homeowner to clean up the property because the Town is lacking the funding or the manpower?  Why not send out a letter in the spirit of cooperation?  By sending out a threatening letter, yes I may be forced to clean up the property, but it leaves a bad taste in my mouth regarding those whom I voted into office.  Therefore, I phoned in a complaint.  As a tax paying citizen, I have the right to stick up for what I believe is inherently right. 

A few thoughts on the summons itself….As I stated above, the summons stipulates for me to remove “loose branches and leaves” from the property.  Why on Earth would I get fined for removing Mother Nature? Those leaves and branches fell naturally to the ground.  They will eventually naturally decompose and benefit the soil underneath.  “Hell can freeze over” before I pick up naturally falling leaves and branches.  How about instead issuing a summons to those who put chemicals on their property which sink into the ground and contaminate our drinking water?  Am I living in the twilight zone?

It’s time we collectively learn how to stick up for our rights as citizens of the Earth.  (Notice I didn’t write citizens of the United States).  We are born free, yet because of man-made arbitrary rules, we are bound so tight we cannot move.  It’s time to release the chains that bind. 

I did contact my local politician with my concerns and received a response that my complaint was “being looked into.”  My next course of action is to write an editorial to the local papers. 

“A girl’s gotto do what a girl’s gotto do!”

Flexing some muscle...lol

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Pay Attention to your Posture

The older I get, the more I seem to slump.  I need to “check” myself throughout the day to make sure my body is in correct alignment.  I ask that you do the same.  Today, we spend many hours in front of a computer screen.  Let me ask you to examine yourself as you read this.  Are your feet firmly placed on the ground?  Are you sitting up straight in your chair?  If not, “sit up straight!”  Correct your posture.  It is not good for your spine to be sitting hours on end with your shoulders rounded.  If you are sitting in a room with others, take a look at them.  Are they slouched in their chairs?  If you want a good lesson in how not to sit, examine the people around you.  Make a mental note of what you see.

In the good old days, our Mother used to tell us to “sit up straight.”   For some of us, this conjures up bad memories.  As children, we didn’t like being told what to do.  As adults, we like it even less.  However we need to learn what’s best for us and incorporate it into our daily routine.  Why is checking your posture important?  Here are some reasons:

1.       Good posture and health are interdependent.  Physical ills sometimes vanish when posture is corrected.  Among these troubles is backache, which can be caused by muscular strain.

2.       Good posture facilitates deep breathing, which contributes to better over-all health. 

3.       Good posture protects the spine.  If we do not sit or stand in a straight position, this can restrict our blood vessels and nerves which can lead to problems of the joints, discs or muscles.

4.      Good posture eliminates “rounded shoulders.”  Rounded shoulders can lead to compression of the chest which can cramp the heart and lungs and over crowd the digestive and other functional organs of the body.

5.      Good posture makes a better impression on others.  For example, would you hire the person who is slouched in a chair during an interview or a person who is sitting up straight?  If an interviewee is slumped over that person can be read as self-conscious, shy or discouraged verses the person who sits straight up, which can be seen as confident, poised and dynamic. 

What is the proper position of the body for perfect posture?  Here is a description from MacFadden’s Encyclopedia. 

“The shoulders should be back, the abdomen should not be drawn in as is commonly recommended.  It should be relaxed and perfectly free to move outward and inward as the breath is inhaled and exhaled.  There should be no strain in any part.”

Picture from MacFadden's Encyclopedia - Correct Posture

For today, pay close attention to your posture when you are seated especially in front of the computer.   In addition, make a mental note to throw your shoulders back and stand up straight as you perform routine daily tasks.  Remember repetition leads to habit.  By adjusting yourself daily, you will see an improvement not only in your posture but in your overall health and well-being. 

REFERENCES

Macfadden, Bernarr,  “Macfadden’s Encyclopedia of Physical Culture,” Macfadden Publications, Inc., New York 1928

Why I didn’t purchase a lottery ticket….

The car radio blared that the lottery was now up to 650 million and people were scrambling to purchase tickets.  I must admit that even me, someone who has NEVER purchased a lottery ticket, turned up the volume.  Should I find the nearest card store and purchase a ticket?  The thought was intriguing as my eyes scanned passing stores.  If I had $650 million there were so many things I could do with the money like producing my own television show or paying off the mortgage of loved ones.  What a glorious life it would be….or would it?

We have all heard the phrases “money doesn’t buy happiness” and “money cannot buy love.”  These statements we know are true because money, after all, is just paper.  Money cannot buy an emotion.   What we think and how we feel are consequences of our journey and the choices we have made.  Time moves forward each and every day.  We can either take a step forward in the direction of our goal(s) or we can stay still.  Winning the lottery may get us to our destination, but it cannot give us pride, accomplishment and satisfaction for a job well done.  If we want to feel happy we have to earn it, not purchase it.  How do you earn the right to be happy? First, by being grateful that each day you wake up you have 86,400 seconds at your disposal.  Second that you use your time wisely and take the necessary steps to reach your goals.  Lastly, that you face any adversity head-on and move forward with determination and perseverance. 

Character is built by appreciating and valuing yourself.  Winning the lottery would drastically change my journey, hence affecting my life’s lessons, which can only be learned through hard work, sweat and tears.  I smiled as these thoughts encompassed my brain, turned the radio to another channel and kept driving.

Nope!

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